Take Refuge in the Body

This week we're diving ever deeper into the June Inner Constellation theme--Refuge. Last week we practiced Taking Refuge in Spiritual Ancestors, now we're exploring Taking Refuge in the Body as our anchor, a solid place to rest in the midst of any storm.

I wish to flesh out what I mean by "body." In my Inner Constellation work, body encompasses three components:

1) Heart
2) Mind
3) Nervous System

If you're interested in Heart and Mind as ways of Taking Refuge in the Body, you may wish to click on the highlighted links for each above. For today, we'll be resourcing number 3--our kick @$$ nervous systems.

When things get rough and tumbly, our nervous systems shoot into high gear as survival mechanisms to mobilize against perceived threats. If we need to fight, adrenaline will shoot through our bodies at lightening speeds, if we need to flee, blood pulls from our extremities to our cores so we can move fast and unencumbered. We are pristine survival machines, however, most times when things get rough and tumbly, it's not a matter of life and death. Taking Refuge in the Body, literally means using one's powers of observation and concentration to self-regulate the nervous system. How to do this? Ah, we possess a miraculous elixir...a supreme regulator--the breath.

Studies show that breathing evenly immediately balances body systems and begins to regulate its myriad of functions. Whenever you wish to change your body--first, change your breath. The technique of breathing evenly immediately balances racing thoughts, transporting blood from the limbic (fight-flight-freeze) portion of the brain into the frontal lobes where we do our most skillful thinking. Breathing evenly turns on the light bulbs for insight and clear seeing. Notice, I'm purposely italicizing breathing evenly, not necessarily deeply, which can be harder than Hades to do when we're in fight-flight-freeze; however, breathing evenly begins initiating a state of flow.

When life gets rough and tumbly and clouds move in, obscuring your North Star, take refuge in the body--your breath--as an anchor. Begin regulating and moving into a flow state where insight and skillful thinking are resourced and initiated. We are powerful beings. Like the outer space with its bazillion of galaxies, the inner space is just as vast and deep in its capacity. Through the lens of even breathing (and my personal favorite, self-compassion) explore, explore, explore.